Sunday, October 16, 2005
Pornder
PornderI was thinking about the biggest thing on earth, Sex and pornography. I think I am on my way to be against porn, to no avail or significance of course.
Pornography is a staple, as 4 people (all male) I know have told me in my face. It is always easy to look over usual common banal things, especially if it is private, and none of your business. Many guys, and girls (but statistically less), watch it or use it. It is almost of no matter, it is common, it is normal, they say. I thought. It has been around since medieval Europe, dark middle earth, ancient Japan, or the pre-ages, u pick your countries and centuries. Bottom line remains that pornography is historical, and deep-rooted in deed. I should not rant and keep to my own business.
Porn is good. On the part of the males, it de-complicates the Coolidge effect responsible for polygamy, or more commonly in our time and society, cheating.
Porn is good. It is safer than red light districts. (or green lights/ pink ones where gigolos are- hee I guess sex is red regardless of gender right?) It will not bring disease to your family.
Porn is good. I enjoyed Andrew Blake’s artistic productions with a good deal of amusement. Art is life. Porn is art. Porn is life.
Porn is good. If one partner is too tired to bake, the other gets his (pronoun is regardless of gender, a standard ‘he’ I will employ) cake off the net so conveniently. And the cake comes in infinitely kinds of tastes, for your pleasure.
But isn’t using porn cheating? It is, in a way. If it is in a way, then it is. Porn with its however many advantages and good causes is cheating and immoral. Think about it. It is subsumed under acceptability because everyone is doing it (who goes to hell? Everyone!) and oh how do think your amoeba-ic righteousness can overturn the giant porn industry and man’s way of living?
Maybe porn does serve as a better alternative for your partner who might bed other people. But will you let your partner use pornography to satisfy his needs? He is sexing with another man/woman, physical contact or not! On another note, maybe you aren’t up to standards. But aren’t couples about mutual acceptance?
Pornography is used happily by couples. After all, they can be found in your parents’ locked drawer. If you are using it for ideas, I sneer you. If you are deliberately using it for excitement, I sneer you more. Sex, all sorts of it, love or mercy or what have you, little vibes?, should be engaged in without the vile taint of pornography. It is obscene on more than the simplistic one level.
Standard Disclaimer inserted. :)
timtams at 6:54 PM
4 Comments
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at 1:57 AM
said... Pornny.
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at 6:31 PM
said...
yeee i dont really like blake lei
his style is a bit too S&M, i don't like costumes.
Why sneer? sex is for the brain, porn is for the brain, chocolates are for the brain. Sex is selfish, it's for the self. Partners just improve it.
ahahhahaah u're spiritual-
at 12:07 AM
timtams said... i love sex i love chocolates i love myself i love my partner and i love my brain. but i hate porn. google "anti-porn" those are the whys. but there is more hatred in me than those googled whys. and i dont know how to express them. thats why i am still porndering.
i guess most of the things we do are self-centered. we all share this self-centered-ness,thru sex or not.
oh no no not all s&m. got nice lovey cuddley passionate ones. but u have to download, or send a request via me. do u want? i can top it up with chocolates for your brain. dont ever buy ritter sport dark chocolate with nuts. best daily-affordable darks are still meiji blacks $1.20 -$1.50 depending on ur luck (ike knows meiji right? got meiji there?) and of cos, lovely classic timtams. $3.25 - $3.60 oh yums, timtams in support of anti-porn movement -if i ever get myself involved. get it on with timtams, say no to porn.-
at 2:16 AM
said...
Porn should be used as population control. Let old men watch it. An die. Save the planet!